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Love / Hate / The finer Line

A normal person would take a lot of time to do everything possible to have the person they love, love them back. They would show their love through kindness and generosity, and care and words – whatever it takes, because they know that that love is precious to them and is what would make them happy -but that is what a normal person would do.

A person who would do anything possible to get someone else to hate them because they are too scared of the truth or facing the possibility that someone is capable of loving them wholly and completely must certainly be evil. How could you possibly trade the greatest thing God ever made for the worst thing that ever sprouted out of man’s once pure heart? Hate over Love?

Most people are searching for love, desperate for it. Some spend a lifetime never truly experiencing this amazing one-of-a-kind feeling, never knowing what it’s like to love and be loved; and yet there are other people who would easily throw it away, do horrible and unfathomable things to people who love them just because they are scared and cruel.

But here’s the thing, love is love. It can never be traded for hate, it can never be replaced or tainted or forgotten. It can hurt, but it will always find the strength to let go and forgive, to heal in due time and grow again. IF what you feel in your heart is truly Love and not a semblance of it, then no matter how horrible a person is, no matter how hurt you get, you will always find a way to forgive, because hating someone is so much harder than to just love them, and because that Love is truer than anything else, stronger than any mistake or pain.

There’s no such thing as “one day she/he will get tired of loving you” – if they get tired of loving you then they never really did in the first place. Love can never get tired. It just understands that sometimes this person was not the right one for me, he/she has already moved on and found something better, and one day I will too. Do not listen to someone who tells you that Love isn’t worth it, that it will eventually end, that they will hurt you in ways you can’t imagine and you will hate them, because that is a lie.

Love IS worth it, it will never end. Yes, it will hurt at some point, but you will always find the strength within that love to heal and forgive. When they hurt you, look into your heart, find that part of you that knows the truth, that realizes that whatever they are doing to hurt you is because they may be scared, or aren’t ready for your love, so they will hurt you in the hope of chasing you away by hate.

Once you get past the anger and pain, you will open your eyes and you will see the truth. You will forgive them and possibly still love them because you know they need that love, that pure and strong love. If they choose to use you as an outlet for all the things they cannot let out elsewhere, let them. Be that outlet for them, be the strength they need and give them the Love only you know how.

IF you truly Love someone and you believe they are worth it, do not ever let them push you away through hate because of their fear. Let them find another way, an honest way, not the cowardice way!

 
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Posted by on June 3, 2017 in Drama, Faith, Me. You. US, Social Life, The Globe

 

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Saying Sorry Doesn’t Always Make it Right!

The Mistakes you can make have such consequences. At first you might think it’s nothing, that it couldn’t possibly do any harm. And then you realise it’s not nothing, it did do a lot of harm and you are paying for it.

Sometimes you may insult a friend out of anger or out of pride and hate, and then by the time you try to apologize and make it right, it turns out to be too late. You’ve lost one person you could never get back. You try so hard to make it right, you give everything you got to show how sorry you are, and yet nothing can make it right.

I guess what I’m trying to say is, don’t make that mistake, because once you do, you will regret it. You would have lost something precious and unique. Sorry can’t make everything right, it can’t take back the things you might have said or done. But we can still try. Because even though they are just words, in our hearts they have a meaning. To be sorry for that mistake, to wish we could change it even if we can’t because only our hearts truly know the true pain of our actions. 

So if you hurt a friend or let them down, make sure you are ready for the consequences because it might be the last time you have them in your life!

Friendship is too precious a gift to be lost so hold onto your loved ones with all your strength and never let them go!

True Friendship

 
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Posted by on March 17, 2011 in Me. You. US

 

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