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Love / Hate / The finer Line

A normal person would take a lot of time to do everything possible to have the person they love, love them back. They would show their love through kindness and generosity, and care and words – whatever it takes, because they know that that love is precious to them and is what would make them happy -but that is what a normal person would do.

A person who would do anything possible to get someone else to hate them because they are too scared of the truth or facing the possibility that someone is capable of loving them wholly and completely must certainly be evil. How could you possibly trade the greatest thing God ever made for the worst thing that ever sprouted out of man’s once pure heart? Hate over Love?

Most people are searching for love, desperate for it. Some spend a lifetime never truly experiencing this amazing one-of-a-kind feeling, never knowing what it’s like to love and be loved; and yet there are other people who would easily throw it away, do horrible and unfathomable things to people who love them just because they are scared and cruel.

But here’s the thing, love is love. It can never be traded for hate, it can never be replaced or tainted or forgotten. It can hurt, but it will always find the strength to let go and forgive, to heal in due time and grow again. IF what you feel in your heart is truly Love and not a semblance of it, then no matter how horrible a person is, no matter how hurt you get, you will always find a way to forgive, because hating someone is so much harder than to just love them, and because that Love is truer than anything else, stronger than any mistake or pain.

There’s no such thing as “one day she/he will get tired of loving you” – if they get tired of loving you then they never really did in the first place. Love can never get tired. It just understands that sometimes this person was not the right one for me, he/she has already moved on and found something better, and one day I will too. Do not listen to someone who tells you that Love isn’t worth it, that it will eventually end, that they will hurt you in ways you can’t imagine and you will hate them, because that is a lie.

Love IS worth it, it will never end. Yes, it will hurt at some point, but you will always find the strength within that love to heal and forgive. When they hurt you, look into your heart, find that part of you that knows the truth, that realizes that whatever they are doing to hurt you is because they may be scared, or aren’t ready for your love, so they will hurt you in the hope of chasing you away by hate.

Once you get past the anger and pain, you will open your eyes and you will see the truth. You will forgive them and possibly still love them because you know they need that love, that pure and strong love. If they choose to use you as an outlet for all the things they cannot let out elsewhere, let them. Be that outlet for them, be the strength they need and give them the Love only you know how.

IF you truly Love someone and you believe they are worth it, do not ever let them push you away through hate because of their fear. Let them find another way, an honest way, not the cowardice way!

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Posted by on June 3, 2017 in Drama, Faith, Me. You. US, Social Life, The Globe


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Special and Memorable Dates…

To some people a date might just be another number on the calendar but to someone else it has a much broader and special meaning.

Many of us have special dates that we like to remember and ones that have wonderful memories we would never want to forget. It could be anything really, like a birthday date of a dear friend, a parent, a sibling, a lover or anyone else special. It could be an anniversary date, or just another date that has a memory of something that happened and changed your life in ways you couldn’t possibly imagine. 

Special Dates

And it doesn’t have to be those kind of dates. For example, it could be a special event that is celebrated every year on that date, like  New Years or Christmas and Easter and any other religious celebrations. It could also be something like Mother’s day or Father’s day or St. Valentine’s day or any other St’s day.  It could be maybe an event that happened on that date, like the 11th September 2001 which was devastating or how the world remembers the 1st and 2nd World Wars and any other wars that might have taken place. All I mean is there are a lot of dates that many of us hold dear or remember for one reason or the other.

The reason I’m saying this is because for me today is a wonderful and special date to remember. It brings me happy memories, ones that I would never want to forget, memorable and precious. 24th….it doesn’t matter on what month it is, just that it happened on the 24th and so every month on the 24th I sit down and let the memories flood my mind and heart because they could never be washed away. It is not, however, the only date that is precious to me though. Of course there is my mother’s birthday and siblings and my loved ones and all.

So why don’t you find those special dates that you might have put aside or forgotten and see how much joy they can bring you. It will show you how the past can not really be forgotten and that it is a good thing to remember such memories, to drown yourself in them and just enjoy the good old days and the many that are to come.

Sometimes the past can bring you joy even if it once brought you pain! 😉

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Posted by on March 24, 2011 in Me. You. US


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